Cheating Partners

If you suspect infidelity you're half way there. Intuition is one of the most powerful gifts we've been given. Partners cheating and getting cheated on is miserable and one of the most devastating events that can happen in anyone's personal life. And not knowing for sure if it's actually happening makes it worse. You're sick to your stomach, you feel emotionally exhausted, sexually neglected and your self-esteem is in the pits. You probably eat even less than you sleep. It is one of the worse feelings you will ever experience in your life.

Sometimes cyber cheating partners can be more damaging to a marriage than an affair of the flesh.
It's easier to think about your wife fucking some tramp from a bar, than having deep personal loving feelings towards another person! If a married woman is exchanging words describing sexual actions she's performing on someone else, even if it's all in the imagination, my guess is she's guilty of adultery.

Lying is always an indicator of something gone wrong in a relationship.
If your loved one begins to tell you they are "just surfing the Internet," and they do it in privacy, you may have something to worry about. You must ask yourself how many times this has been happening, There is a fine line before having friends of the opposite sex on the Internet and constantly being with them on-line. If he/she has nothing to hide, then he/she shouldn't be lying to you in the first place.

The internet cheating partners signs:
It's two in the morning. You wake up alone. Again. Your spouse's side of the bed hasn't even been slept in. Again. From the other room, you hear the telltale sounds of keyboard clatter. Again. Is this normal?
If you think your spouse is having an online affair, there's probably no real way to tell for sure unless your mate has been very careless. Most people involved in extra-marital affairs are pretty smart about covering their tracks. But what they are incredibly stupid about is forgetting to modify is their behavior. They vainly think that they can explain away all of their new, suspicious, and very interesting behavior. And for awhile, out of love and trust, you find yourself believing them. Or at least trying to.

The internet is like the crack-cocaine of love. It's highly addictive, and the behavior similarities of someone involved in an online affair and someone abusing drugs can be frighteningly the same.

Has your girlfriend / boyfriend behavior patterns changed drastically, and does it seem to center around their internet usage?

Does your spouse often come to bed after a long internet session all keyed up and horny, expecting you to "take care of it"? Has your spouse been requesting for unusual things in bed? Is she - he cheating on you?

Does your girlfriend / boyfriend demand privacy when online? When you walk into the room when your spouse is online, does he/she often turn off the monitor? Switch to a different website quickly? Act embarrassed?

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Does your girlfriend / boyfriend often go online at odd hours of the night? This could indicate he/she has a cyberlover in a different time zone and cheating on you. Or it could mean that he/she is talking to somebody who is also cheating on his/her partner, and that's the only time they can find to chat.

Has your spouse's grooming or housekeeping habits deteriorated? Oftentimes, people involved in affairs are way too busy to bother to clean house, do laundry, or even shower themselves. Also, if a woman has to choose between spending a few extra minutes with her cyber-honey, or putting on make-up for work, if she's truly addicted to this affair, she'll forego with the make-up. Remember, you don't have to get yourself ready to go on a cyber-date! Simple things like shaving, or bathing, or other things about his/her appearance your spouse used to be meticulous about may have been temporarily retired.

How about friends? Have you noticed that your girlfriend / boyfriend friends may no longer be calling or visiting? That could be for two reasons. Either your spouse has become such an internet junky that his/her friends are barely noticed when they visit. Or it could be that your spouse has confided about the affair to them, and they feel uncomfortable being around you. Heck, they probably feel uncomfortable around your spouse, as well.

Have your girlfriend / boyfriend normal interests and hobbies slowly tapered off? The wife who used to love to cook gourmet dinners who now serves dinner straight out of the can. The husband who was absolutely crazy about woodworking, who's tablesaw blade is growing rusty. The spouse who used to adore spending Saturday mornings in his/her garden has let that garden turn to weeds. The spouse who doesn't even want to go out to sporting events anymore, or favorite nightspots, or read novels, or go shopping anymore. These are very genuine signs that your spouse's internet addiction has grown to very alarming proportions, and that a possible affair may be in the works.

Does your partner become secretive or defensive when asked about his/her time spent online?
Does your partner ignore spending romantic evening with you since discovering the online world?
Does your spouse snap, yell, or become annoyed if bothered while online?
Does your partner seem preoccupied with getting back online while offline?
Does your spouse lie or try to hide how much time he/she spends online?
Does your partner feel depressed, moody, or nervous when offline which seems to goes away once back on-line?
Is your partner cheating? Find out now!

Experts say that a gut instinct is the most powerful indicator of a cheating lover. Statistics say that 85% of woman who feel their lover is cheating are correct. 50% of men who feel their lover is cheating are right. The first clue is seldom obvious. Typically, it's a "feeling" that something is different. You notice minor changes in your lover's behavior. Even the most skilled cheater can't hide these clues and only a lover in total denial can miss them. The first sign can be a comment or incident that seems harmless but remains in your mind. The following is a short list of possible symptoms:

Your husband / wife spends an excessive amount of time in the on-line chat rooms.
Your husband / wife pays less attention to you.
Your husband / wife is preoccupied with on-line chatting, more distant emotionally.
Your husband / wife is insisting on chatting alone.
Your husband / wife has unaccounted time away from home.
Your husband / wife has a decreased interest in sex.
Your husband / wife becomes defensive during normal conversations.
Discovery of a post office box.
The toilet bowl seat is up, (men) and when you left home it was down.
The passenger seat in the car has been moved and is not in the usual position.
An unusual number of hang ups or wrong number calls.
Fragrances of colognes and/or perfumes are noticed on clothing of a cheating spouse.
Automobile mileage is unusual for claims made by cheating spouse.
Your spouse explains a late return home as a result of having to drive out of town on business, but yet the mileage on the car indicates less than ten mile driven.
Discover the recent opening of another checking account.
Unaccounted for hairs of a different color on clothing.
Cigarette smoke on clothing that can not be explained.
Credit card transactions for unknown or unusual types of purchases.
Cosmetic, perfume or lipstick purchases listed but not received.
An increase in toll and/or long distance calls.
Increase in ATM withdrawals. Check the transaction record to ID the withdrawal location and time and date
Income tax returns revealing unexplained travel and business expense deductions.
Florist or jewelry bills.
Credit card gas purchases that are inconsistent for the amount of miles driven on the car.
Joins a health gym or weight reducing clinic.
Visits made to the tanning salon.
New hair style.
Wearing hair spray, colognes & perfumes more often.
Needs a pager, cellular phone.
Excessive buying of new and different clothes.
Sudden and unexplained change in clothing style.
The buying of sexy underwear or lingerie.
There is an unexplained aloofness or indifference in the relationship.
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Legitimate Motives for Computer program Spying
1. Trust is a big reason, not of your partner, but yourself. Probably for some time you have sensed something is different or questioned the change of behavior in your partner. Perhaps you confronted him/her and it was met with denial. This created a huge dilemma for you because a part of you was screaming, Hey, this doesn't fit! I don't believe it! To deny this part of you, which KNOWS the truth, creates a tremendous internal turmoil. If the truth as you suspect it is confirmed, you can take a deep breath and at least know that you can trust yourself. You are NOT CRAZY! Spying is a way to confirm your suspicions and trust more fully your gut feelings.

2. Computer program Spying may help you feel connected to your partner
Who seems to be steadily moving away from you. It is a way of maintaining contact and have some sort of connection to this stranger who once was well known. Isn't it like the game of hide-and-seek we used to play as children? Sometimes there, sometimes gone. At least it is a game, and a game is at least some contact, some involvement. You miss the connection and try to find someway to maintain the ties.

3. Computer program Spying may be an honest attempt to bring resolution to the relationship. You want to know the truth. You sense something does not fit. You suspect there is a breach of something. You want to know what you are up against. You are not willing to stand pat and wait. You are a person of action. You want some sort of movement. You want to get on with the relationship. You want to get on with your life. You know that it is difficult maintaining your sanity when there might be this huge elephant that no one is talking about. You want to know the truth, face the truth, deal with the truth and be free.

Is Computer Spying an Invasion of Privacy?
My, how the person involved in the affair cries foul when he/she discovers you are spying.
Outrage can be intense: "How dare you!! I never thought you would stoop to that! How could you!? How can there be trust in this relationship if you do that? This is none of your business; I don't spy and go behind your back! Now you know why I want to pull away from you. How could I love anyone that would do something like that to me? On and on.

Usually the person having the affair does not see or will not admit the duplicity of his/her clandestine behavior. But you are made out to be the villain if you use detective work to discover the truth. It doesn't make sense, but then again not much about an affair borders close to sanity. Are you a morally corrupt duplicitous character hell bent on destroying the integrity of a relationship through spying? No, of course not. The integrity of the relationship has been destroyed through the affair. The affair shattered the promises and mocked the vows that the two of you made.

The affair invaded the domain of your marriage and crumbled its protective boundaries. The affair broke the contract of the marriage; it was the act of betrayal. Spying does not damage the marriage. It is an attempt to seek the truth and resolve the pain and deception.

Computer spying is often used to grasp the reality of the situation. It's intent is to find the truth. Only the truth can provide a foundation from which to begin resolving the hurt, pain and forging a direction for the marriage and enable each person in the marriage to attain health and sanity.