Loudon Wainwright III's Whatever Happened To Us, an ode to his broken marriage, offers an interesting twist on the question of women's sexual satisfaction. "Well, we used to be in love but now we are in hate," he sings. "You used to say I came too early. But it was you who came too late." If a woman loves her husband, but he has no sexual value - she will not desire sex with him - even if she is horny. Some guys have a hard time understanding this. She may "agree" to having sex with him, but she will not be sexually turned on.
Always remember that treating your lady well is important, but take note that women also pay very close attention to how you treat others. Confidence and intelligence are important to each sex, while everyone should avoid sarcasm and baby talk.
So what turns women on?
I posed that question to friends across the globe, friends whose ages range from their early 20s to their late 40s. And guess what, guys? Our appetites are every bit as lusty as yours.
Take a look at our women turn-ons!
Take it outside - Whether it's the change of scenery or the risk of getting caught having outdoors sex in public gets lots of enthusiastic votes. One friend reported a particular fondness for sex in graveyards, and two spoke of frenzied sexy moments stolen in medieval cathedral towers in Europe. Wouldn't it be nice to find those kind of sexy girls in a quick search?
Water, water everywhere
Skinny dipping, showering or nude bathing together, bedding down where the ocean's waves crash into the seashore... Whether on public legal nudist beaches or in private, we like putting our bodies into bodies of water.
Tell me more
Erotic sexy talk is another big winner. Conversations in person, on the phone, online that linger over your most sensual thoughts can lead to your most sensual experiences with cyber sex.
Sure, there's time!
I'll keep this brief: Quickies have a lot of female fans.
Hello, Marathon Man
On the flip side, so do sessions that last a whole night, day or weekend. The mere mention of long, luxurious explorations of every inch of each other's bodies will put most women in the mood. That's where you'll stay until you're both ready to drop from exhaustion.
A man who can be dominated
All relationships involve a power struggle. A man can be firm with a woman, but must also be capable of surrendering some of that power. A woman likes to take control sometimes and it makes her feel sexy when a man is ready and willing to respond to some of her demands.
A good back masage works wonders
Massage the muscles between her shoulder blades and her spine. As you move lower down the back her nerves start to become more sensitive. Tip: During sex you can even take a back rub break to delay ejaculation.
Creating a sexy atmosphere
Never underestimate the power of candles, sexy music and clean linens. Put some thought into creating a sexy mood, and you'll get our attention and make us look forward to getting yours.
Make me laugh
Nearly all women are looking for a guy with a good sense of humor. Laughing together improves loving together and what's more pleasurable than good, giggly sex? Knowing who and what you are and being proud of the person you are and what you have to offer (without being arrogant or expectant) is very reassuring.
How to turn women on - Suds it up
To turn your girlfriend on give her a long, sensual shampoo is one way to work her into a lather. Follow it up with a lavish sensual massage it's highly unlikely that the touching and fondling will end there!
Get experimental
Explore new sexual ideas you've wanted to try. She's as eager as you are to get her whole body (and yours) into the act.
How to turn women on - Why ask me?
Some women shiver at the lightest touch, some like it rough. Your girlfriend may be a conventional plain-vanilla type... or she may be savoring some wild fantasies you'd be delighted to share.
Want to find out? Ask her. She'll be more than happy to tell you what would turn her on - and more happy still to live out some new sexual fantasies with you.
Here's the trick: First you will have to find and then start dating a sexy woman before you can turn her on, a good start would be checking out these sexy female pictures from your local area.
Also don't forget to read our secrets that will make women beg you to date them - even if you are bald, fat or ugly at how to attract women
Loudon Wainwright III's Whatever Happened To Us, an ode to his broken marriage, offers an interesting twist on the question of women's sexual satisfaction. "Well, we used to be in love but now we are in hate," he sings. "You used to say I came too early. But it was you who came too late." If a woman loves her husband, but he has no sexual value - she will not desire sex with him - even if she is horny. Some guys have a hard time understanding this. She may "agree" to having sex with him, but she will not be sexually turned on.
